Helping Our Kids Heal: A Support Community for Parents Navigating Covert Narcissistic Abuse
**Because your child’s story is being shaped — even if they can’t articulate it yet. And you don’t have to do this alone.**
Children raised in the world of a covert narcissist experience confusion long before they have the language to describe it.
They learn to walk on emotional eggshells.
They learn to shape-shift to keep peace.
They learn that love is conditional, that chaos is normal, and that their feelings are… inconvenient.
But you — the healthy parent — have an extraordinary power to interrupt that generational cycle.
This group, which begins on Jan. 8, 2026, was created to help you do exactly that.
What This Group Is About
This is a safe, confidential, expert-guided space designed for parents who are:
Trying to protect their children from the emotional fallout of a covert narcissistic spouse or ex.
Navigating loyalty binds, triangulation, and manipulation directed at or through their children.
Watching their child pull away, shut down emotionally, or even side with the unhealthy parent.
Wanting to support their child without badmouthing, alienating, or violating court orders.
Desperate for clarity, emotional grounding, and scripts that actually work.
You’ll learn how to show up in ways that heal, even when you can’t fully shield them from the dynamics they’re exposed to.
What You’ll Gain Inside
💛 Language That Helps Your Child Feel Seen — Without Blaming the Other Parent
Learn scripts, phrases, and grounding techniques that validate your child while keeping you safe legally and emotionally.
🧠 Understanding the Dynamics Your Child Is Living In
Explore how covert narcissistic behaviors (gaslighting, guilt-tripping, playing victim, emotional withdrawal) affect developing brains, identity, and attachment.
🛡️ How to Become the Safe Parent They Return To
Even if they’re confused, defensive, dismissive, or distant right now.
💬 Coaching Through Real Scenarios
Bring the actual conversations you’re having with your child — and get real-time guidance on how to respond with clarity, boundaries, and compassion.
🤝 A Community That Gets It
Other parents who understand exactly what you’re going through — without judgment, without minimizing, and without the toxic positivity you get elsewhere.
🌱 Tools for Breaking the Generational Pattern
Help your child build emotional vocabulary, self-trust, self-regulation, and resilience — even in a distorted environment.
This Group Is Perfect For You If…
You feel like you’re losing your child to the covert narcissist’s influence.
Your child seems confused, distant, or overly protective of the unhealthy parent.
You’re terrified that saying anything will be labeled “parental alienation.”
You want practical tools, scripts, and emotional support — not just theory.
You’re determined to help your child heal, even if you couldn’t prevent the harm.
What’s Included
Weekly group meetings with expert guidance from Renee Swanson
Actionable scripts and worksheets for real-life conversations
Breakdowns of the covert narcissistic behaviors your child is exposed to
How to support your child’s emotional development inside a distorted dynamic
Coaching for co-parenting, parallel parenting, and post-separation abuse
Community support from others on the same journey
Why This Matters
Because children raised in covert narcissistic homes often grow up believing:
Their needs are wrong.
Love must be earned.
Peace comes from self-abandonment.
Their reality can’t be trusted.
But with the help of one grounded, emotionally attuned, safe parent — everything can change.
You can be that parent. This group will help you stay steady, confident, and connected while you do the most important work of your life.
Ready to Join Us?
If you're ready to get the support, clarity, and tools you need to protect your children and help them heal, click below to learn more or register.
Date and Time: Thursdays at 9 am Central Standard Time beginning on Jan. 8, 2026
Duration: 6 weeks
Group Size: Limited to 6 participants
Cost: $497
Location: Live on Zoom
✨ You don’t have to do this alone.
This heartbreak is real. And it’s happening to good, loving, protective parents all over the world.
Let’s walk through it—together.
